Tonight I lay in bed covered with a heavy blanket made of sadness. Where do you start with a blog? How do you grab someone's attention? How do you make someone care?
My Blanket is knit together with pain. Not physical pain, but a pain that can only be understood if you have lived under it.
OK - here's the attention grabber. My Beautiful Granddaughter told me (beginning) 3 years ago that she was being molested. We called the proper authorities and nothing was done.
We found out about 8 months into it why...
The attraction between the accused and the DCF Investigator was apparently stronger than the concern for the child, so they moved in together and began their secret relationship.
Yes - she was THE investigator on the case and NO - she has not been reprimanded for her unethical behavior.
Worse than that, the innocent victim has had her life turned upside down.
I will call my Granddaughter Innocence...
Innocence has seen two counselors, for almost two years combined. They both agree that she has been molested, and one even had Innocence on video telling what was done to her and where she was when it happened.
Innocence has leaked from her rectum and screamed in pain and said why she hurt and told who hurt her.
She has told her Pediatrician that (I will call the alleged Perp.) Perp hurt her vagina with a castle toy, and upon examination, the Pediatrician found dents and ridges in her Hymen.
This case was sent to a different county and Innocence told the investigator that Perp hurt her with a toy and even showed her the toy he used.
This county tried to have the court remove and protect Innocence, but when Perp walked into the Judges Chambers - Perp yelled Hey Judge S-------- - remember me? DCF out of county was denied.
Oh, Have I mentioned that Marsha (that's what I'll call the DCF girlfriend, because this is the fake name they told Innocence to use before their secret was exposed.) Anyway. Marsha and Perp worked overtime to make me, the Grandmother, to be the monster. They convinced all of Marsha's co workers and Law Enforcement affiliates that I was coaching Innocence because I didn't like Perp....
Marsha did a very good job....
I could only see innocence with supervision, and now, the blanket that I cover myself with is 22 hours from my family, and I have not seen Innocence since March 13, 2012.
There is much evidence against Perp, and even much wrongdoing by Marsha. Innocence has told the counselors that Perp told her not to tell or he would go to jail. She also told her Pediatrician that if she told, Perp would go to jail and she would never see him again.
Marsha made many comments as to how she would make phone calls to "Nip this in the bud."
There is no evidence against me, and no indicators from Innocence that the Counselors or anyone else has witnessed.
Only Marsha's and Perp's accusation against me. Nothing to back it up....
Before this, my family was happy, intact, and strong. And NEVER has there been any attack against my character.
For three years I have fought tooth and nail. I have been slandered and battered, and now, I must sadly admit that I have no fight left in me.
I will continue to add to this blog, and believe me, many things I add will make you say, This can't be true. This type of thing can't happen in our town!"
Yep...... It can... and it did... and it still is.....
July 23, 2012
Today I went to Walmart with my sister. She was on the phone talking to her Granddaughter and telling her Happy Birthday. At the end of the conversation, my sister put her face into her husband's chest and began sobbing. Her Granddaughter (and family) have lived with her for four years and have recently moved away.
When I saw her reaction, I couldn't breathe. I began to cry, and I wanted to puke!
All I could say was, "I know exactly how you feel." And I do.
My Granddaughter wants me home, and I can't be with her.
Perp and Marsha got together with her friends and convinced them that I was abusing Innocence by coaching her. Perp served me with a restraining order, and in the Judge's Chambers, he was surrounded by victim's advocates. I knew because of the previous years of unfair rulings that I was going down, so I offered to leave the state to live with my sister until this was settled.
So here I am.......
Perp had free representation from the local Legal assistance, on behalf of Innocence, because - remember - she was a victim of MY abuse, NOT his.
Innocence's Mother who is the custodial parent wasn't even notified that they were representing Perp to save Innocence. I've been told this is not legal. But then - hey - I have to say I'm not surprised.
Innocence's Mother, who I will call PB, short for Punching Bag, is physically, emotionally and financially exhausted. She used to be the happiest person I knew until Perp destroyed that part of her.
They had a happy marriage in the beginning and when PB got pregnant, Perp seemed happy and then things became very weird.
PB was attacked by a dog and was hurt pretty bad. When I called Perp, he didn't ask how the baby was, or how PB was, he only asked, WHO'S GOING TO PAY THE BILL???
Then the morning sickness began. Perp had no sympathy, and said, All pregnant women get sick, deal with it!
He then began telling PB, me and my husband how he used to drown kittens. He said he held them under the water until the bubbles stopped coming out of their mouth. He then laughed that sick laugh that we were becoming all to familiar with.
He told us one morning as we were having coffee on my front porch, how he and a friend had to stick a suppository up the friend's little girl's (butt) (his words). That sick laugh followed...
And then there were the peacock feathers. We went to Clearwater, Florida for a baby shower, and while we were at the shower, Perp went to a local Cemetery. Apparently his Grandparents were buried there. When he came to pick us up, he told us that there were Peacocks everywhere!
I've raised Peacocks for 33 years now, and I know that they naturally lose their feathers twice a year. They just fall out.
When we got home, I opened the back of the car, and there they were... Peacock feathers with blood all on the Quills.
I asked, Did you pull those out of the Peacock? I knew the answer, because when they fall out, there is no blood involved.
He answered, "No, they were everywhere!"
Later PB asked him if he had pulled them out and his answer was yes...
She asked why he had lied to me and he said, "I wasn't lying. When I said they were everywhere, I meant the PEACOCKS! I wasn't lying."
Which leads me to the Polygraphs that he has passed with flying colors........
Seriously? He doesn't know a lie from the truth, but he is so good a conning people that they think he does.
About 5 months into the pregnancy, he began telling people that PB was "Screwing around on him."
You see, he claimed to be a Christian, and he would only leave his wives (plural) if he had a scriptural reason, so he had to make her out to be and Adulterer. Never mind that she was puking at least 9 times a day, to the point that the enamel was gone from her teeth. Never mind that she was with me all the time so I could take care of her. Never mind never mind never mind......
When PB went into labor it was hard and fast. Three hours. Perp told me that he was sick of listening to her scream and he left the room.
He did come back for the delivery after which he prayed in front of the Nurses and Dr.... How sweet.
Then he promptly asked the nurse how long it would be before PB's hormones got back to normal because he couldn't take much more of her being so moody. In Jesus Name, Amen.....
He left 8 weeks later. He went to the bank and told them that PB had lost her Debit card and they needed to Cancel it. He then went to the Insurance agent and cancelled her vehicle insurance.
No money for diapers, no job, because he didn't want HIS wife to work, no formula, no Health Insurance, or vehicle insurance.......
Then the campaign began. Vote for PERP for Victim/ Father of the Year!!!! My wife ran around on me, spent all of my money, and I don't even think the baby belongs to me!!! She won't even let me see her!
PB went out and immediately got a job to take care of Innocence. She had no time, no desire and no energy to defend such ridiculous accusations.
Perp had lots of time. He quit his job making 90K per year hoping to release him from the responsibility of paying Child Support.
